to love things

How we love to love things for other people; 

how we love to have other people love things 

through our eyes.

John Irving

'The Cider House Rules'

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someone you love

It's natural to want someone you love 

to do what you want, 

or what you think would be good for them, 

but you have to let everything happen to them. 

You can't interfere with people you love any more 

than you're supposed to interfere with 

people you don't even know 

and that's hard. 

John Irving

'The Cider House Rules'

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when you lie

When you lie, 

it makes you feel in charge of your life. (...)

When you lie, you feel 

as if you have cheated fate - your own, 

and everybody else's.

John Irving

'The Cider House Rules'

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what love is

Was that what love was, 

and 

how it came to you - leaving you no options 

for its use?

John Irving

'The Cider House Rules'

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real adventure

You know, everybody dies.

My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies.

I'm going to die too. So will you.

The thing is, to have a life before we die.

It can be a real adventure 

having a life.

John Irving

'The World According to Garp'

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to know & to lose

We don't always have a choice how we get to know one another.

Sometimes, people fall into our lives cleanly --

as if out of the sky, 

or as if there were a direct flight from Heaven to Earth --

the same sudden way we lose people,

who once seemed they would always be 

part of our lives.

John Irving

'Last Night in Twisted River'

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